Oh good grief. Forget the last questions. H is truly living in a surreal place right now. He hacked into one of my social networking accounts and saw messages between me and an ex from long ago. I had told H about these messages and said ex contacted me and after a few pleasantries over a few weeks I asked him not to contact me anymore. Apparently H didn't read content and saw length and now is trying to say I'm a liar, despite the fact that he's been having EA for months, I disclosed this to him, and even told ex not to contact me as I was commited to marriage. I told him I needed to get off the phone as we were clearly not seeing eye to eye. He then texted me all of this:

"Ok...do what you're gonna do..I'm sorry..I'm done. Why do you care (about us)? If it's only for D then that's not fair to you. Like, there's no way you want to be with me. Everyone's telling you how awful I am and you know yourself I am. I'm a selfish jerk. I know what I've done and how I am..so why do you act like you want to make it work still? I want to be nice to you and have a good relationship for D. I know you're hurting...I only hope we can someday."

What the heck is all that? Do I even respond? Why does he say "there's no way you want to be with me" when he clearly knows I do and even says so himself in the next line??


Me: 26
H: 28
T:8 M:5
D:2
BD:4/1/13
Separated 6/6/13
Filed separation 6/21/13
Waiting for D papers to be served, H says filed