Doesn't it make you wonder why they wont give their address. I mean I heard you say before b/c he thinks you would be going there and hanging out or something. But seriously, I cant comprehend why this is done by the WAS. I mean do they really believe might show up at their door or what. I dont understand this. Given the fact in my sitch, its now three months since the airport ride and phone call later that night. Does she really think I'm going to go 900 miles to knock on her door only to be treated like the enemy? Especially after 3 months. And now, with my several weeks of only answering her emails she has to know by now I'm only doing the right thing based on her walking away. And to tell you the truth it's still not that easy to not send her an email with some kind of indirect info. I figure that her daughter will have told her by now I sent her daughter $200.00 towards what we owe them. D wants me to send her a pic with my weight loss but I know what you all have been saying about being careful to not use family as a message board etc. Her daughter doesn't want to see her Mother D me. So, I am trying real hard to DBing according to what works. But, like you Trying, it's hard not to want to reach out. I do think I am getting better at it but it only takes one slip up to go back to the beginning again.