He said that he's in it and hasn't given you a reason to think otherwise.
The reason I think otherwise is because A) he mentioned during the original talk that he wasn't sure what he was going to do... and B) because he has left in the past...I feel like if he can't fix his feeling internally he will leave cause he knows that's what helped last time
Originally Posted By: MrBond
Have you thought of any way to spice up your sex life? Personally I think he needs a "jolt" to show him that you're REALLY not the same person any more. Just something new here and there would be enough.
I have thought and I have showed him. The night before last I initiated and came up with a few things we have never done before. He loved it and enjoyed it and it was perfect. But the reason this is so unsettling is cause he woke up yesterday morning, went to work and when he came home from work he was in a terrible mood again. I'm trying so hard but sometimes its discouraging to deal with constant ups and downs. And continue to "act as if" is a struggle when i get no reinforcement from him.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
