"Had a tough day Saturday. W had planned an outing with GF and her man friend, (MF) and then GF cancelled. W tells MF she's still up if he is. WTH? Does she really think solo dates with another man are acceptable? Especially when she won't even allow herself to have fun with me? F that. I'm getting pretty tired of this loveless M crap.
On one hand I sure would like to pull out the rug from under her and tell her what time it is... on the other I like that she's telling me everything... I don't want to make her feel like she has to hide this stuff. "
oh I remember W's GF's MF. I mistook what you were calling him I sure hope MF did not take W up on her offer for a solo date, did he? I can see how you are getting really really tired of just living side by side like people in a boarding house. It's so hard, isn't it? I get tired of it too, but at least I have the excitement of RT riling my H up until he spews at me every week or so
I know you have a bunch of GAL activities. Do you have any that involve other women? The volleyball maybe? Remember how she got a bit withdrawn and sulky after she saw how well you and GF got along? Maybe if W saw that other women in addition to GF find you fun and attractive, maybe it would ping something in her brain and she would remember she finds you fun and attractive too?
By the way, did I miss it? Did she pick out red for your new car???
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
I sure hope MF did not take W up on her offer for a solo date, did he? I can see how you are getting really really tired of just living side by side like people in a boarding house. It's so hard, isn't it? I get tired of it too, but at least I have the excitement of RT riling my H up until he spews at me every week or so 