My Story - Need Help... Is there hope?

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Thank you truelovewaits for your kind words but in the brginning I did it all wrong. The week after then BD I begged, pleaded, cried......I feel that's what pushed him to move out. Once he was out I was less crazy but would still talk R if he called. On some level I understood that he didn't want to deal with me though so I really didn't pursue and would go dim, even though I didn't have a name for it.

You need to detach. Learn to understand that this time is for you to heal and become a better man. If, and when, she contacts you you will know how to address all the. Issues that have arisen I believe that people accepting what they've done, changing their mind, asking for forgiven comes with maturity......our spouses are children right now. Once they see the light I definitely think they can change their minds and make an amends WE cannot make them see the light though.

Just like you I have bad days. Days I cry in the car or my stomach is just all in knots and the stress and sadness make mr want to crawl into bed and stay there. A fried of mine, she introduced me to the site here, says that every day you are closer to happiness....whatever form that takes