NERO FLOATING- throw that line.....

[RosaLinda]

T those cookies sound great, no flour at all? I'm going to send your recipe to my SIL with celiac disease!

Nero you said "i am more det5ached to him tho- i can walk away when he ever gets close to being icky- i believe he senses it- tries to act nicer when he gets wind of me just walking out on him and his "even beginning tantrum" - i am soooo OVER his bad attitude and impatient crappy self." Nero, Snodderly explained this to me. As she explained it, it is a sort of a dance, an evil MLC dance designed to give us hope and dash them against the stones. I guess the trick is to not have any expectations that the niceness will continue.

I just copied this off my old thread, from Snodderly "There are times when the mlcer will be nice and the lbs will begin to draw closer to the mlcer once again. In other words, think that the mlcer is coming out of the crisis or wants to be best buds. The lbs tends to want to be the all for the mlcer and begins to draw closer and think "ok, he/she is being so nice, I'll do whatever they want and be best buds". Not the case, generally when they are nice, they are reeling you in for some thing they want or something they've done and you'll find out later. If they can't get you to drop your detachment and react, they will then try to do it w/angry and spewing, hence the lbs is there trying to soothe them and get back on their best side. It's a dance of emotions and one that you need to detach from. You need to remain the way you have been the last week or so, i.e., aloof, you don't react to anything he says or does. If you do, he'll know he's got you on the fishing hook once again. This is all described in the Solo Partner and yes, I even have a thread on Cadet's welcoming page discussing it. I suggest you read it when you get a chance."

Isn't that interesting? I think that is what your H is doing Nero, you are fed up with him and he can feel it and is trying to get closer to you.

Hahaha, I am slim too from the misery diet, but my legs and arms are in flab city! But I bet we are both "delectable" especially for our age right! Poohey on your friends who say you look to thin! A woman can never be too thin or too rich right? I know I look a darned lot better than the RT, that's for sure! You know what's funny -- how when they are delivering BD, the MLCers also deliver a laundry list of what is wrong with you? My H told me I was too fat and too short. Well I lost 20 pounds, but didn't gain any inches

Are you up to some company on Saturday Sept 14th? uR and I want to take a field trip, and I want to eat some of those cookies!