Originally Posted By: TSquared2

You are working on you, then don't take her crap personally first, then decide what and how you are going to respond...what response will get you to YOUR goal?

But first, stop taking it personally, imo. That's tough to do, I know. But if you can find NO reason that YOU caused for her to be that way, then it is HER issue, so it's illogical to take it personally.

But you have to be honest with yourself to be sure that YOU did nothing in reality to "make" her react/act that way. Hope that all makes sense.

Keep going!
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Phenomenal advice - easier to see from the outside though and hard to implement. Like the title thread also.....

Stay strong!


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