I'm wonder what does "Going Dark" actually means now. My W complained that i do not make the initiative most of the time before the BD. Yet now she request that i leave her alone. However i do know that she is not comfortable talking to me cause i will remind her of her pain in the past. Do i even do a 180s on not making the initiative now?
I'm really confused on what I have to do now except working on myself and keep reading self help books.
