T, thanks for clarifying in your responses to my post.

I want to respond to this:
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Do you think she could be doing this just to get control again?


Who cares? Sorry for the bluntness but really, If you are in control of you it doesn't matter. And that's why sex is dangerous territory for you right now because you're in a vulnerable spot, your marriage is in a vulnerable spot, you aren't in control of you.

As I said before, have sex, don't have sex, have dinner, don't have dinner, just remember it's a choice you're making. All choices have consequences, so make that choice fully accepting the consequences, positive or negative.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss