I understand we all have changes to make, when my H gave me his "list" there were some that really stung because I knew I needed to change in those areas. They were things I didn't like about me.
Are the things you listed, things you don't like about you?
Also, definitely don't put a lot of pressure on yourself after the baby comes. You're going to be recovering from major and surgery and taking care of a baby 24/7. Honor that. Love yourself.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss