Hugs for you Stung...
Its okay to cry...just don't wallow in it. Breathe and just keep picking your sself back up....in time things will get better for you. I still cry but with in I minute I try to wrap it up and put my focus else where.

I have the same thoughts, wondering how my H could be done with me so easily...wondering if he really loved me in the first place. I doesn't even matter anymore. Have to focus on us, this pain will not take us down, we will take it and use it to make us stronger!


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope