I don't want to divorce. Happiness is important to me, but I can be happy with her even without sex...I'll just find someone else to do that with. And I can't say that I'm kidding about that. Don't worry, that's not something I'm in the planning stages of right now.
As to whether she would take notice if she thought she would lose me, I think she would. The problem, however, is what CeMar has said so often: the important thing is that they desire us, not just that they "put out." I think that she needs to do a lot of work inside her head before she is ready for that. Unfortunately, she doesn't want to hear that.
