Good morning NLT. You sound like you're dealing well with all your H's craziness. We don't have too much choice in the matter, except to stand back and watch the show in wonder, right? Send in the clowns!
So the OW bought a house. How nice for her. Too bad the barista didn't ask your H where you were; it would have been interesting to see how he handled that one. I bet the phony, obnoxious, chatty cathy, airhead would have had an explanation. Judging by her track record for lying, she would probably say you were divorced or something. I'm glad you were able to help that poor barista. Maybe MLC craziness is more common than I thought.
Snodderly's explanation of why your H left his clothes with you is interesting. My H moved into my S27's old bedroom a few years ago. Boy, writing that (a few years ago) shook me up a bit, this has been a long haul for me. Anyway, for the first couple of years he slept there but left all his clothing in his dresser in the master bedroom. After BD#2 this past April, he moved a lot of his clothing into the dresser in S27's room, but his socks, shorts and handkercheifs are in my room. That seems so strange to me. Also I have to knock even if his door is open but he feels free to just walk in my room.
Yes, my H decided to use the same company that issued his phoney hotel invoice to obtain his visa. The Russian embassy site says it takes up to 12 weeks to obtain one thru proper channels, but this scam company advertises 7 to 15 days. It's been a bit longer than that already. I didn't tell him, but I did a lot of research, and besides issuing fake hotel invitations, some companies also issue forged visas. I hope for his sake the one he chose is not one of those. But he has been dying to experience "real life" in Russia. He might get a chance to see what a real Russian jail cell looks like!
I finally got a lawyer too. A nice one, not a pit bull. I have put it off for years, but my H's MLC seems to be escalating with this trip. Hopefully it will open his eyes and RT's eyes to the lies they have been telling each other. It might be the end of the beginning or the beginning of the end.
I'm looking forward to hearing what the barista has to say on Friday.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
