Originally Posted By: kelela
Last night I had a hard time sleeping and now I'm wide awake I'm so scared that I won't be able to keep up with my bills. MIL is trying to help me to get by bills knocked down to a more reasonable amount for me to be able to afford. I'm so grateful for her help. But I still worry about it. I need to just slow down and stop worrying about everything which is hard for me to do. I already have couple of bills that are couple of monthes behond. I should have taken over the bill paying along time ago and I know a lot of ppl have told me this but I had put to much trust in H and now I have to try to catch up and again I never in my wildest dream that my marriage would end up like this. I just need some good fortune to come my way yes I know I have to go and get it cause its not coming on its own.


You need a plan that systematically details out what you need to do to catch up on your bills and financially succeed past that point. With that, your worry will ease and you'll sleep better, which will spill over and help all parts of your life.

Write your plan down and stick to it.

-PM


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