Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

[MrBond]

IMHO, you may be jumping the gun.

He said that he's in it and hasn't given you a reason to think otherwise.

I definitely don't think you need to stop telling him that you love him. PLUS since you've only been putting the changes in for a week, it's going to take a while for him to understand that your changes are for life.

Have you thought of any way to spice up your sex life? Personally I think he needs a "jolt" to show him that you're REALLY not the same person any more. Just something new here and there would be enough.