Planet, I will read up on ur sitch. Not familiar with your sitch and not sure where you're coming from on your posts. Only you know what's best on your sitch. Don't make any rash decision if ur still early on your sitch. Read up on here, read DR apply and filter what you learn that you feel is appropriate on your sitch.

Read a lot of self help books, read up on different approaches here, tough love, waiting out the A etc. I find myself in a tough love approach and will not tolerate any A. Read up on some boundaries if you haven't done so.

What am I gonna do? I'm still formulating and learning the D process, talking to L's etc...I'm getting my ducks in a row.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.