Thanks Whiterose, Snodderly and Juststunned.

She actually did it again today. She called to give me info about my MOTHER.

This upset me a little bit. She also spewed at me a little today.

She has contacted me more since she has been married than she did before.

I find myself slipping again and starting to believe all of her lies and spew.

The question is:

If she is going to continue to do this, how do I handle these calls?

I sometimes get the feeling that she really does want to be my friend. The problem now is: I'm not sure what I want.

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13