Just read Sandi's rules also....I have broke #11 big time. Don't say I Love You. I have been doing that alot. And I think because that is part of our problem. He complained how he always initiates it and I never do...but the last two times today that I said it he didn't say it back. How do I stop that but show him my consistent change at the same time?

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14