I was hoping you were just over-reacting, im so so sorry you feel the evidence is so strong. Your right they will deny till the proof is put in front of their face.
I commend you on having the strength to follow thru on your boundry breaking. Its absolutely heart breaking when our spouses betray us like that. I recently went dim myself, and I can tell you after 7 days, its not what I thought. My wife and I even thru all the issues still talked everyday, now cause I didn't answer the phone 1 or 2 times, she refuses to talk at all, even about the kids pretty much, its such a fine line, I know its not exactly a DB technique but be careful with it.
