So today I began paying back some monies owed family. As Advina said got to "clean your own house". This goes back to my first thread and where my W emailed me about this debt that her and I owe. My intention has been to pay it back and said this long before W mentioned it. Will be interesting if this draws any kind of response. All remains quiet with no new contact and I remain strong enough to keep it that way from my end.