He is not done. Simple as that. It was on the table once and he has never brought it up again. So, we see where these roads take us. I was a WAW still in my marriage. I had also disconnected and it took my H leaving to shake me out of it. I made changes that I thought I could never do, I became sure of myself, confident of me, found myself outside of being only a wife and mother.
I couldn't have doe these things. H said if I hadn't confronted him, most likely he would still be here. He was suicidal for a while after he left, but before as well.
He is getting better and I wish him well on this journey. I have been lucky to be walking my path since last year, and he has just started. So, I give him all the support he needs until he figures it all out. I am pretty much good with it. For now. Probably will come a day when I won't be and by then he will be fine
Not to say I don't have my "Oh darn, look, H got hit by a bus today. Also lost my job as bus driver...bad day" kind of times but hey...who doesn't??
