Do H's debts affect you directly right now? I know that as spouses we are responsible, but is it something you can let go? He is obviously not going to come clean to you...quit asking lol!
That is the worst thing about snooping though, it gives us more info than we really want sometimes. Sometimes (as a person attending snoopers anonymous myself) ignorance is good :P
Here are my stock phrases for you when H is going out :
Sounds fun, have a good time!
Super, say hi to so and so (do not use this if H is going out to dinner with XGF, just sayin'...)
Good for you...
You get the picture. Because you are doing the same thing RIGHT?? Getting out....
