Trust issues are related to finances. She's had to bail me out financially about three times, and I recently overdrew my checking account by $20 and she said I never change. I'll be the first one to admit I'm not the most fiscally responsible guy. To address this, I've basically handed all financial matters over to her.
Also, I started smoking cigarettes, kept it a secret from her, she found out, I quit, then started again, she found out, then I quit. She points to this secrecy as a big trust issue.
I think these are red herrings because they aren't related to sex. I welcome other people's views.
