Oh and SLU I have to add that H asked me to basically drop out of his life about four weeks ago . We ML and he said ILYBINILWY , want to make relationship work with gf, asked me to defriend him on facebook. I said yes. That I loved him and if this is what he wanted I would. I even said if a divorce is what he needed, my lawyer could have papers within 24 hours.
He asked how I felt, I said sad and hurt, but balanced. He was puzzled. I told him that our book has yet to be written. He said friends or romantic, I said both. That we will either be together or we won't. When you look at those as the two options, there is a balance and I was okay with it.
