**********This is sooooooo not DB *******************
FATE
It's 4:55 and I run out to my car and get ready to blast off to pick up d3 at daycare.
Car doesn't start
I ask a ee for a jump- cant do because the battery corrosion ate thru the terminal.
So I call AAA to tow me.
I have 0 idea about cars and naturally assume that it will be another $500 bill and have a quality hour by myself to stew about it.
(I arranged for nana and grandpa to pick up d3)
About 40 mins into my quality stew time my w calls..........
As you may know I'm already pumped to talk finances and 40 minutes of catastrophising just had me at a unique place.
" hello, I'm calling to say goodnight to d3"
I'm sorry d3 is not with me right now, she is with my parents...
" why is she not with you"?
Because I'm still at the office waiting for AAA because my car broke down and it needs to be towed and we need to have a discussion about finances because I'm paying you too much $$$!
Oh, we'll yes you do pay me a lot.
( really??? I've been screwing myself all this time because I didn't want to inconvienance my unfaithfully wife- and this is all you got )
Maybe you can pay me $500 less a month.......
( you don't even have the numbers in front of you and you KNOW you can roll off 5hundred.......WTF)
Sorry, I say, the tow truck is here......gotta go
Tow guy gets out and says all it needs is a $7 part.
All that freaking out got me at least $500 a month - prob more.
I'm getting the sense that my finances are about to make a nice rebound
We shall see where this ends up.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
