It doesn't seem like you have anything to lose, only gain, by forcing a sale. Why should you be the only one fretting over where you are going to live? It's time your h and OW get a reality check. They are completely delusional and cruel, I might add. What kind of people just toss someone aside as if their life and survival doesn't matter. You are the mother of the kids for God sakes. I'm so heated over your situation. It hits too close to home.
Keep taking the high road. At least you can look at yourself in the mirror.
