I'm not sure if you are legally married.. but if you are.. chances are you will have to pay for the insurance anyway.
My x tried to kick me off her insurance because she thought she had a right to. The law protected me.
You still have obligations under the law as her spouse. Whether you agree or not - you still need to uphold them. Because that is the fair thing to do.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.