Dcotors appointment to discuss anxiety meds scheduled. Sunstantive part of DB read (skipping the maintenance part for now b/c I actually have to have something to maintain first). Tried the "forecasting" trick from DB and so far, so good, though I have a few more hours left in the day. I am detaching by staying at work late frown I do have work to do getting ready for my mat leave, but I feel like this is what men do when they want to detach from thier wives. Going home soon, wish me luck. I am going to re-read sandi's/180 rules. And I am repeating my forecast: Today will be a calm day with no arguments, outbursts or meltdowns. (I can't predict a "good day" yet because for me a good day would be my H getting out of his fog).


Me 35 H 34
DS- newborn 8/13
T 8.5 M 7
H's EA - 10/11
INILWY 5/13
DBing 6/13
Don't know WTF to do 1/14