First I personally don't think it is a good idea to discuss with kids stuff that their mother is doing morally wrong with an OM. Simply set the example of how a responsible adult in a committed relationship should act. They will figure it out and understand on their own. If they ask questions about what their Mom is doing, especially the older child in this situation, then you can address it in a way that limits the damage to her as much as possible.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
in the "Your counselor doesn't know what he is talking about" way."
Um I definitely don't know where you got this from. I just asked if you talked to your C specifically about how to approach this with your kids. But hey, their your kids not mine.
Mr.Bond I do understand where Rock got this: from your statement (and I am paraphrasing here) "any T worth their weight will tell you the way you approached it was wrong."
I agree with Lanzo - everyone needs to simply agree to disagree and move on. Sometimes these boards are simply just for venting.
