Strike while the iron is hot

[Lina]

Is she the sort who'll probably later calm down and be a bit more rational about it? Or at least reconsider?

Though the hardest part is that, to a certain extent, she's right. You do need more, and that is what the whole point is. Hopefully she can reach a point where she sees it not as "giving up" more, but participating further in your marriage...

Is there any way you could sort of give her an introduction to the love languages idea, mention the things you've been doing differently to try to let her feel more loved in your marriage as an example of ways one spouse can go out of their way to consciously do so? Or would that turn into an "I do this... you do that..." battle? /-:

Hopefully she'll calm down and be more willing. It took a lot of courage for you to do that. It's a big step... and whatever happens next, it's good in the long run that you took it. Good luck, man.