Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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I completely 100% understand his frustrations and anger. It makes sense to me for sure. And yes it's my mistake that it took threatening to leave for me to finally get it. But I have committed myself to make this apart of my life. And not just for him...but for me. I want to be a more loving affectionate person. I really do. And at the start of the week it took a conscious decision. It's almost like as if its actually starting to come a little bit natural to me. I'm enjoying it. I feel like a very loving wife this week and he enjoys it. I know he does. And he even tells me.

I haven't brought up R talk at all this week. Im definitely acting "as if", and i feel like I have had a very casual spirit about me when I'm around him. And it seems to put him in a better mood. I haven't showed him one tear since this happened. Even though there has been hundreds after he leaves. I'm trying my best to be carefree and attractive to him.

A few weeks ago he awoke and had a very bad day. So grumpy and assured me it wasn't me. He didn't know what it was. I'm wondering if maybe he is having internal emotional issues with something else as we'll and finds it easy to blame it on our marriage? After having such a wonderful time yesterday and a great night in bed last night it just puzzles me as to how he can come home for lunch in the worst mood ever.

Mr Bond, how do I bring up maybe talking to someone about his anger without jeopardizing everything?