Then he should really talk to someone. It's not your job to make him happy. You're changing for him and yourself which is a good thing. If he can't see that, ultimately it's HIS choice not to see it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.