Conflicts were his family to start with as they did not welcome me but he stuck up for me .Other conflicts were to do with the children and language problems and money .
He specifically says that he feels the mariage eroded from the start witht he stress of all the arguments and battles we had with other people !
He also says he feels I was always too critical of him , this maybe true sometmimes but not as much as he seems to think. He says it was difficult with me as I suffered epression for years and was always homesick for UK.
Now he says the only thing we talk about is the grandchildren ( not true )
It seems he suffers from lack of praises and attention.... but I suffered from lack of attention too and his withdrawal, which worried me so much but he gave no chance to talk.Now I know why..OW.