So she does not even acknowledge there is a problem? Or she puts the problem onto you? Seems to me she left her "dream job, dream house, etc, etc" because she wanted to, not because you twised her arm. I've been reading on this forum for quite some time now and have not really contributed because I am not a very good writer. Seem to have a hard time getting my point across or do not know the right words to say. I have been waiting months for my hubby to read the book. He said he would but the book is still in the same spot as before. I am to the point where I just don't care anymore, and ironically enough it was at that point when he came to me and said he wants to make the marriage work. Hes being nicer to me, actually went out with me on New Years Eve for the first time in about 8 yrs, but we still sleep in separate beds. Anyway would seem to me that now is that time to try to get her to see that her reaction to a simple request of reading a book is a little bit exagerated. I'm sure others will chime in soon and have much better advice for you. Hang in there.
