"She said she feels like I am controlling and our financial problems are a big part of her resentment."
Did she elaborate?
"She told me that she has been working on trying to reconcile our issues for a long time. That one caught me off guard because we have barely talked for the last 5 months."
Did she explain HOW she tried to reconcile your issues? Many times a WAS will say this, and say that they've been doing it without the LBS's knowledge. Well that's bull because if the LBS doesn't know there's something wrong, how can anything be reconciled?
"So, when I get served my D papers, how do I proceed?"
Take things one step at a time. Start going out and going dark right now.
"As far as financially, should I separate my bills from hers now or wait until I am actually served papers or D? "
Do what you need to do to protect yourself financially.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
