So the attorney forwarded me H's letter. He is out of his mind!!! He is crazy as a loon.
Now H is saying he will not agree to take on the second mortgage if I don't sign the agreement he drafted up in January that states 50/50 placement and no maintenance. HA! He wants to have financial mediation about the other stuff which there needs to be no mediation. He gets his car, I get mine and the rest split 50/50. Now here is where it gets interesting.
H has said all along I owe him money because we are "upside down" on the house. But if you remove the second mortgage from the picture, the house has $11,000 equity. If we split the debt equally (including the second mortgage), H will incur more assets and hereby will owe me money. Quite a bit.
So I am starting to feel better. I need to give myself more credit I guess.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"