Nice to hear from you, Rkyfat. Great update with lots of specifics.

I think you are moving on. Time helps with that. Keep doing what you're doing. The key to moving on is GAL. Moving on is a by-product of GAL. Lowering your expectations also helps.

I don't think you should be bringing up R talk. Why do you want to?

Could you start by spending more time with her and S12? I'd be wary of asking her out. If you can, wait for her to show an interest in spending more time together.

What's the latest on her EA/PA?

You're not sounding as angry at your W. Good work.

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012