Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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Thank you AnotherStander for your insight. Yes we have read the five love languages when we got married. He is physical touch. You are right. I know for sure it's been months of build up cause be has come to me with the problem numerous times in the past. I'm just having such a hard time with him being so cold to me. I don't have the patience for it to take months. It's tearing me up inside. We had a great night last night. He was in a very good mood and we had a great night in bed. Then he just popped in on his lunch break and is the opposite. So grumpy. And I asked what's wrong and he just said he is so grumpy. So I gave him a hug and held tight. He didnt hug back but he did bring his head down to my level to respond a little bit. When he left I gave him a kiss and told him I loved him and he quietly under his breath said he loved me too. Is he jus sayin this and doing this cause he has to in the moment? I can't handle the on/off good day/bad day. It's an emotional roller coaster and its killing me inside.

I don't know why he is angry either. I think it means he is angry at me for not listening to him in the past and now taking it seriously. Im not sure. He wAsnt angry at all yesterday and we had a nice day! And cuddled all night long and he thanked me and everything. Then today it's a nightmare.

It's almost like he is trying so hard then can't fight it anymore and breaks down. It's so similar to last time...I'm just waiting any minute for him to come
Home and tell me he is leaving..