Im in an Acceptance cycle now I think. This was the shock to my system I believe I needed to get to this stage of acceptance. I am sure now that I will be served D papers in the very near future and that there is nothing I can do about it.
I don't like it one bit but I accept the fact that this is her decision and I have no control over it. Not feeling like I am in limbo anymore is a better feeling (for the time being) than being IN limbo.
I am moving forward from here. I am still a stander for my W and I will be until I cant handle it anymore. At the time of this writing, I believe my line in the sand will be when she finds herself in a R, after the D. When that is confirmed, I believe I will end my standing. Time will tell.
I have been doing a LOT of reading on here. I have realized that my W is not a WAW but actually an MLCer. She may actually be a hybrid MLC/WAS but primarily a MLCer.
