There is no specific time to have sex, like after the first marriage counselor appt.
The right time is when you feel emotionally connected and feel like you truly are moving towards reconciliation and she is not trying to use sex as manipulation which she has done in the past.
Odds are pretty good she can't ML without it being a purely physical connection.
I'm not going to say its not in a woman's makeup to do so, as I feel a woman can do it, but it is not just a physical connection when it's with your husband you may be wanting to divorce.
Make sense?
It's purely up to you what you chose, but your eyes need to be wide open to all of these possibilities.
Your standing strong and making the right moves for a true and pure attempt at reconciliation. Your showing you can't be easily manipulated and that you are serious. I wouldn't do anything to hurt that.
I think so. I need to be aware of what I choose and have to live with it.
She said late last night that it wasn't nice to get knocked back but it's fine and she will wait until I'm ready.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
