I still brutally hate the situation that this has put her in. She doesn't deserve to have a broken family. She doesn't deserve any of this. My heart still bleeds for that part.
As my boss is very keen to remind me, children don't ask to be born. Yes, we are mostly here because we want to save our marriages (except for those who are giving up their valuable time to give advice) and improve ourselves but we also have to remember that the children, however you dress this up, will be hurt. The only way I think it can work is to be honest and forthright with them.
