I know exactly what you are saying once again my father called me today and told me to go back to the lawyers office and file for legal separation and see if under that filing if I am able to move back to my home state. I do understand why my father wants me to do this so that I'm not stuck or out of things and plus I need to be with my family. And I really would love that I know I have been dealing with H first affair a year ago and now he is living with the current OW it only has been about couple of days since this new situation. At this time I just need to slow down and figure what is my next step my mind and health is all over the place I don't know how I'm going to be able to pay for everything on my small paycheck and with the amount H has agreed to give me each month. I just need at lease a month to figure things out. There is so much on my plate right now I'm about to turn my phone off so I don't anymore phone calls and texting. The only thing is I can't right now I'm still waiting for the delivery of my sons beds iI hope it will be here soon.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013