Hi Forlovessake. I understand your frustrations. Many days I just want some idea of what will happen, but then I think in the end I will be thankful I took this time to work on myself. One of my initial thoughts when my H dropped the bomb was to just move away from everything and start over as quickly as possible. When I took a breather, I realized this decision would not be the best for my career, nor for my well being. Moving is a big event, and it should be done because it is beneficial for you and D. If you need to get away take a mini-vacation if you can and think on things. Meetup groups are a good idea. I've met a lot of good friends from meetups.
