Help needed please

[Mimi00]

Sorry you're having this issue.
You will get great advice here.

I am trying to cope the best that I can . I have long since stopped begging him to come back ( he said he's never coming back !!). I have lost 50 lbs ( my friends tell me I look like a million dollars - but I don't feel it ! ) .... I have taken the children on holiday .... I've taken care of lots of maintenance jobs that he neglected ... and I have new job lined up starting next month .... I feel that I am "getting on " with my life . I was hoping that all of these things would make me more attractive to him !!

Don't change for him, make yourself more attractive for you. Make your self into the person you'd want to marry. If he comes back, great, if not, you're still someone who YOU love being, that's what matters, and that's what's going to make your changes stick.

Stay positive and continue posting!