Hard question to answer, because it requires me to look deep inside of myself; figure out why I pick assertive, intelligent, controlling women as mates; why I wimp out on discussing things that are important to me; why I put other's needs before mine (most of the time); and why I seem most comfortable with this power/control imbalance.
I know you're right, I should just do it, what's the worst that could happen? Sometimes I wish there was just an easier way to confront her.
