The snooping...........NOTHING good can come of it, nothing!!

It doesn't give you inside information to help the situation, your not gonna find news that she's changing her mind, in fact the only thing you MIGHT find, your not gonna like.

It only puts up another barrier/wall for you to have to break down, with yourself and her.

Detach Detach Detach, so easy to type/read, so hard to pull off.

Good luck