I know everyone talks about Limboland, but it seems finding the map out of town is just as bad, if not worse. I typed it in on my GPS, and the lady's voice came back with a "your screwed" comment.
Yes, as much as I hate Limboland, the other alternative is not great either! Things seem to be going downhill quickly with us. I know that he feels he is hurting me and that is making him even more upset.
PMA this week!!! I am feeling more optimistic. I am going to do everything that I can possibly do on my end. If he continues to act how he is, I am not going to take it personally. I am going to continue light-hearted conversation. I talked to him this morning and he seemed in a much better mood, perhaps being away camping for the weekend gave him some needed space. If I notice him grumbling back I am going to BACK OFF! Now that I have a plan going into the week I am feeling the outcome will be better.
I can only do everything possible on my own end, the rest is up to him. I am going to have faith.
Enjoy your day everyone, and thanks for all of your support
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.