Thaks all,

The thought that im actually EXCITED to have this finance conversation with W proves to me that I have taken a huge growth step. Before I never cared about how much I gave her because she would squirrel it all away and we would go on long exotic vacations as a family or pay off expensive car repairs- I will assume that is no longer going to happen.

Boston feels awesome- 80 and sunny.....ill be there early and I dont have a return ticket so only the good lord knows where I end up - confidence build smile

BTW - D3 and I were 8 inches away from the OM on Sunday. He had zero clue......I wonder if the W saw us.

I saw him- realized all the bad that would happen if I stopped - so I took out my frustration on a unsuspecting hill.


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13