Which is the truth?

[forlovessake]

Well, this was H's first weekend alone with D. I was really, really optimisitic that this would be a good reality check for him as he had previously not been alone with her for more than 12 hours at a time (max), and was thinking maybe this would show him how single parenting feels/why I was stressed sometimes. Turns out he ended up spending pretty much every waking minute with D over at his brother's house where his wife cooked the meals, planned activities, etc. Soooo still no reality for him. Apparently his plan is to do this just about every weekend he has her. I'm frustrated by this, but perhaps I shouldn't be? It's just been a hard few weeks, and the next few don't look much better. This coming Saturday he's going to a wedding with the woman he's having an EA with...swears it's just as friends and he doesn't want a relationship at all. I'm not that naietve. The following weekend is our anniversary and he should be with D, however he's going out of town for that bachelor party instead as I mentioned earlier. The cherry on the top was last night when he kissed D goodbye. She told him to kiss me too and he said an awkward "no". I still can't wrap my head around how we could go from being married and intimate a month and a half ago, to separated and no contact now. And worse yet, how he's just seemingly fine with all this?? 8 years of love and now cold turkey is a lot to take in.