Listen, as a former marine officer, when things are bad, they can still get worst. But to get better, you control the destiny. Look at the worst thing to happen, can you survive it? Divorce, less sex, etc... Yes? then get your ass to work.
Give the letter, prepare to give up some sleep. And answer every question very honestly. If you say everynight, and she want's to reduce that...you still have something. If you say 3 times a week....you end up like the poor HD man with the 34 year marriage...
Honesty. If you can't make if kind, at least softly and honest!
Don't wait....everyday is less pleasure for you!
Just keep us informed, we got your backside! you lead with your front side!
